Monday, November 13, 2006

Long time no Post

Hello I'm back. There are so many things I wanted to share. Our MIS is down so this is my chance for Updates.

EGR(Encounter God Retreat)-September 29-0, 2006. Wow, I thought it will be postponed because of Storm Milenyo on the day before the EGR. Me, Malen Ada, Ruthie Amper, Janice De Asis, and Jacky were the candidates from Doulos for Christ Church. This two days retreat marks a big difference in my Life.

Kuya Fred- I became a Cell group memeber under Kuya Fred. Sya ang Cell group leader ko. We share the same thoughts and likes singing even though I have a little problem on mine. He is one of the lead singer in our church. So thats it.

Oct 1.- I go back to work and since my Cellphone was lowbat and we do not have landline at home I was not informed that I am moving to Mid-shift. This is due to my planning of moving to PLCM. I go to work early and I was so wet because it was still raining. So I have no choice but to go back home. But I decided to attend service in the morning before returning back to work. So starting this day I am attending the Sunday service in the morning and never finish because I have to rush to work at 12 PM. Go to work and I forgot to bring my wallet. Thanks God I still have my coin purse and some food stock in my locker. Skyflakes and century tuna. That's what I've eaten for the whole day.

Oct. 3.- I receive an email from cecil that Marge(bestfriend) will go to Singapore for her interview and to find work. I meet Marge at Megamall. Talk about her plans and our life/work. I really like this girl but she belongs to someone already. Everytime we meet my head spinning whether to tell her my feelings or maybe not because it is not right. But when I have the chance to tell her I always weighing this feelings because I am afraid to hurt her. I know I already overcome this. I have to stop it and look to others. I thought I found the one for me but she seems not interested to me. I try to keep in touch and belongs to her world but she always ignoring me. Broken hearted nanaman. Haayyyy.

Oct. 15.- For the past weeks I had the chance to see her even for a few moments when she arrives early. Her head bows down everytime we meet in the elevator or when we meet in the hallway. I heard she has relationship already but I have not confirmed it yet. I always hoping that someday she will recognize me. I try to set aside this feeling but everytime I see her the feeling going back. I attebded the Morning service and proceed to work this day. At night I am meditating Romans 6:23 and got a terror by night.

Oct. 16.- This is my day. Happy Birthday to me. I have my college friends(Cecil, Eunice and Jedi) and my relatives at home. I am very happy to see them. I prepared almost all the menu. I am happy to hear that Cecil will be staying here to work for good. Her contract for work abraod had finished already so we have a lot of time to see each other. I am also happy to see Eunice. I hope I have the chance to invite them to attend the Friday service. hehehehhehe.

Oct. 18. Go back to work. Got an email to answer Technical exam for my intent of moving to PLCM. I also got an email from Back Office about my Interview on Friday. Wow is this blessings already after my birthday? I am so excited for my movement.

Oct. 20.- Todays my Restday but I have to go to office for my interview. My letter of inent was not yet signed by Sir Teody or was not yet forwarded to HR. We print a new copy. Signed by My TC, OM and then to Sir Teody before an interview. But my OM go home and my papers was with him. I talked to Sir Teody about the interview and told me to proceed with the interview. At first the OM of PLCM- Sir Jet reminded me that the interview doesn't mean that I will automatically be part of their team. It is just part of qualifying me for the Team. I understand him. But God help me, he told Dada to process my papers for my quick movement. I am happy that day. I am expecting to be move next week.

Oct. 23- Go to work early. So excited to receive email for my movement. I also install my new computer at PLCM. But Sir Teody hold my papers. He told me to wait till a new batch of Escalation agents will be deploy. I understand him but I have little disappointment in my heart. I pray at night that I will entrusted my life to Jesus my Lord God. I know He knows whats the Best for me.

Oct. 24. - Work and bought icecream for my blowout to Mid-shift. We should have to celebrate our birthdays(Sir Jelo, Marci and Gio) in Barako but I decided not to go with them. I love them but I do not like the way of there life. I would like to be the light for them but it is so hard to ministry them.

Oct. 27. - Work on restday and then meet Laurice at Cubao. I plan to meet her not only to see her but also to invite Laurice for Friday service. After the service we proceed to Baywalk.

Oct. 28. - Got to Circle to meet Cousin Sally and Ian for morning exercise. Do my usual exercise and then eat lomi at one of the eatery in Circle. At 12 PM get up to prepare myself going to work.

Oct. 31. - Still no email for my movement to PLCM. Talk to Sir Teody about it and he told me to wait. My name is already on the line for movement but just wait for the new batch of Escalation members.

Nov. 1. - All Saints Day. Go to work. My parents are in Tanay because they are looking after our harvested crops.

Nov. 2.- Meet Baredo's Family at Farmers to go to Eternal garden. We visited by lola's grave and paid the caretaker of the grass for my lola. Cousin Sally ask me to go with her going to her father in pasig Cementery. I went straight to their home at Proj. 4. Play Billiard, table tennis and did karaoke all night since when we got to Pasig cementery it was closed already.

Nov. 3.- Meet Jumz for our First Post Encounter. have plaster in my lower left face because of little surgery. This was the scar I got during my childhood. What a bad experience with dogs but stil I am not afraid with them. I still love them.

Nov. 4. - Happy birthday Mother. Sorry but I have to go to work. I love you even if I often tell you this words. How I wish we can spend about 50 more years because I want to show you how much I love you and father.

Nov. 10.- Attended Friday Service. Won Pinoy Henyo game. The word is "Christmas Bonus." I've got the word bonus first and since we are the last pair contestant and the time is running-out they help me to be specific about the word bonus. And they telling me that it is something everyone is waiting during December. So that's it. I got the word Christmas and then the bonus.

Nov 12.- Once again. I did not attent the Sunday service. We have problem in Tanay. My father needs to go home. No one will take care the land. We have problem at home due to some conflicts with my father and my sister. Planning and decisions last night that cause me not to attend the service.

Once more, the cutterpillar saw the flower. And the cutterpillar really love to be near and be-friended to the flower. But the flower doesn't want this ugly cutterpillar. The flower seems have the mask and ignore this cutterpillar everytime they meet. The cutterpillar try to look for another flower. The cutterpillar found new friends with the bees, the ants and with the other plants. But everytime the cutterpillar see the flower the feelings is going back. The cutterpillar don't know what to do but to stop and ignore his feelings.

That's all Folks.

Monday, September 25, 2006

I Feel Happy

For the past weeks I feel very happy with my life. I know now the reason why I am living. I know my direction. I know what I want in life. I have goals and plans with my life. I know that everything will be alright. I know that I could not have anything I want. I know that what is going on with my life is Gods plan. I know that He has a good plan in my life. I just need to be still and follow. I need to wait.

There is time for everything. I know that when something goes bad I think for the positive side of it. Problem, bad things are only in our mind. We just need to accept it. I always putting in my mind that when things goes wrong I know that something better to come. I just need to open my eyes wide to see what good things it is showing.

I need to be different. I know that people who think different are people are happy, successful and fullfilled.

Why not look for things you don't have? Why spend time doing things you cannot do. But if you really want it, go on. Try it. There is no reason for you not to try. But it is better to do things you know. Things you wanted to do. I believe that if you really want something and you do it with passion and with perseverance you can succeed.

I've learned that if you will put your heart, do your best and do things for the glory of God, God will be happy for its outcome.

Before, on my first day of work I am so tired. It is a very stressful day for me to wake up on the first day of work. Think of it that I will wake up in the middle of the night. But now I feel like I have a over-flowing energy, power to start my day. I dont know where it came from. It is just started when I attended the Firday and Sunday service.

I know and I believe that the power and spirit of God is in me, and that is the reason why every moring I am excited to go to work.

I do not worry what will happen to me for the next day. I know that there is better to come. I just need to follow.

Thursday, September 21, 2006

I Want you to Know

I thought you are the one for me
I always hoping that one day you will turn around and recognize me
I don't know how much time I have
I would like to turn to you
I would like to be with you
I would like you to love me
Because this is the feeling I have with you

I tried to be your friend
I tried everything for you to know that I am always around you
I don't know if you feel the same
I just want you to know that I really like you

I am dreaming that we are together
I am dreaming that we are spending our day together
I am dreaming that I am holding your hands
I am dreaming that I can hug you and kiss you

I don't know if God will allow it
I don't know if we are destinied for each other
I know there are lot of conflicts between us
But I want you to know that no matter what happened
I am always waiting in the other side of this planet for you to know how much I care and love you

The Twenty's

ONE.Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

TWO.Marry a man/woman you love to talk to.As you get older, their conversational skills will be as importantas any other.

THREE.Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.

FOUR.When you say, "I love you,"mean it.

FIVE.When you say, "I'm sorry,"look the person in the eye.

SIX.Be engaged at least six months before you get married.

SEVEN.Believe in love at first sight.

EIGHT.Never laugh at anyone's dream. People who don't have dreams don't have much.

NINE.Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.

TEN.In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.

ELEVEN.Don't judge people by their relatives.

TWELVE.Talk slowly but think quickly.

THIRTEEN.When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want toknow?"

FOURTEEN.Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.

FIFTEEN.Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze.

SIXTEEN.When you lose, don't lose the lesson .

SEVENTEEN.Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and responsibility for all your actions.

EIGHTEEN.Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

TWENTY.Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.

TWENTY-ONE.Spend some time alone.

Wednesday, September 20, 2006

TeXt MeSsAgEs

Good morning Messages:

Without Jesus, days are:
So allow time to be with Him everyday.

2 "ur day"
juz relax
2 make
"a smyl"
is not
a "problem"
a "gift" 2b

I hope that
Ordinary Morning

When an
Like me
takes TIME
to greet
Like You.

May God d Father fill ur heart this day with
so many grateful thoughts so that no room remains 4 bitternes and worry, but only Pease, Love, and Joy.

All About Life Messages

Life is ol about waking up each day to discover something new
...about meeting old people but making new conversations
...walking thru old roads but still feeling nice about it
...realizing that you have grown a day older but still feeling young at heart
...meeting busy skeds but still finding time for old friends
...being nostalgic about gone days but looking forward to better days...

Hug them, kiss them and tell them that u love them. Don't miss the chances that life is giving you to spend with people u love. Ther are no rewinds.

God's plans r better dan ours
dats y God doesn't always say YES 2 evry word we say sumtyms He says,
"My child, allow Me, I AHVE A BETTER WAY."

Happiness Is Somewhere Between Too Little And Too Much. may you have just Enough wealth to meet your needs. Enough poverty to Learn how to work hard. Enough blessings to know that God Loves you. Enough problems so u don't forget Him. Enough happiness to kip ur swit. Enough trials to kip u strong. Enough hope to kip u happy. Enough sorrow 2 kip human. Wat you r is God's gift 2 u but wat u bcom is ur gift 2 God.

Whenever we have d opportunity, we should do good 2 evryone. Use evrychance u hve 4 doing good. Wenevr u possibly can, do good 2 those who need it. Never tell ur neighbor 2 wait untill tomorrow if u can help them now.

Principles about Attitudes

1. My attitude as I begin a task will affect its outcome more than anything else.

2. My attitude towards others determines their attitude towards me.
Treat other people with respect or objectively.

3. My attitude is the major difference between Success and Failures.
Willingness to listen to others.
Everyday I should be learning something.
Everyday I should develop.

4. My attitude is my best friend or my worst enemy.

5. My attitude can turn my problem into blessings.

6. My attitude can give me an uncommon perspective on life.
Identify the root cause of the problem. Once verified, provide solutions, recommendations or alternative solutions.

7. My attitude, not my Achievements will give me happiness.

8. My attitude will change when I choose to change.
Everything started when you make a choice.

9. My attitude needs continual adjustment.

10. My attitude is contagious.

What to know about Workplace?

- Where majority of men and women spend a majority of their time interacting majority of the lost world.

Workplace Ministry
- An intentional focus of equipping men and women in all spheres of work and society to understand an experience their work and life as holy calling from God.

Different Workplace

1. Busines
2. Government
3. Education
4. Military
5. Entertainment

Major barriers

1. Sacred/ secular
2. Equality in calling
3. Defining ministry

Four types of Christian in the Workplace

1. Christian simply trying o survive.
2. Living by Christian principles.
3. Living by the power of the Holy Spirit.
4. Who is transforming the workplace for Christ.


1. No Hierarchy for Spiritual calling.
2. Workplace Leaders are the primary source of money.
3. Profit Motive is always evil
4. Workplace ministry is an Evangelism program.
5. Ministry is what takes place within the four walls of the local church.

Monday, September 18, 2006

Is this what they called LOVE?

I was alone in the corner until you came.
You ask me something
I thought I heard an angel
And when I look at you all of the sudden the time stop

I could not hear anyone except your voice
It seems that you and I were the only people in this world

My heart was beeping too fast
And when you ask me again the only thing I could say was yes.
Until that day I've long to see you

Every morning before I start my work I search you
I need to see your face
I even want to hear your voice or touch you

As the days go by I could not fight this feelings
Is this what they called LOVE?

Friday, September 15, 2006

Call Center

I am working as a Technical Suport Agent for four (4) years. I've started as first level agent and now part of Escalation Team that handles escalated calls and handling Advance Networking products. Let me share something about Call Center.

Call (Verb)- To make a request or demand.
Center (Noun)- A point, area, person or thing that is most important or pivotal in relation to an indicated activity or interest.


1. Inbound. Agents respond to calls or emails from customers. They do catalog and other sales work, customer service, help desk, or tech support.
People in this type needs more training, pay better, and are more desirable than outbound jobs.
They are attractive because inbound center agents talk to people who wnat to talk to them.

2. Outbound. Initiate calls to customers.
Do telemarketing and market research work.

Question and Answer

1. What is the best part of your job?
With the current job, we are building leaders. Helping not only to get the position but more importantly the skills they need to be successful in that position.
When you influence fevelopment of employees for the company.

2. What is the worst part of your job?
Dealing with the same problem everyday. Shifting work hours.
Stressful when you have to wake up in the middle of the nigth or working while opthers are resting.

3. What to do to get promoted?
Make other people successful.
Giving them the tools to succeed. It is not always about the number of poits you make. Sometimes also the number of assists you give.
Give your best. Whatever the task at hand always identify areas for improvement so that you could be better each time you perform the task.

4. Advice.
"When you truly want something, the Universe conspires to help you get it."
Pablo Coehlo.
Do not get overwhelmed. As project/tasks pile up, be more efficient with your time.
Have a TIP-To DO list.
Have care to people you work with. You are only as good as the next person.

Attitude determines Life

Bad people are people with Bad attitude

Attitude can reverse everything in your life.

1. Be optimistic.

2. Trust God in bad times.
He will help you to have positive attitude.

The Lord will figth for you. You just need to be still.

3. Have a good attitude in bad times.
Have a feet like a deer.

4. Negative attitued make things worse.

5. A cocky attitude is dangerous to have.

6. Your attitudes should be chaging for better.

7. Your attitude should be the same one shown by Jesus.

What to do during Bad times?

1. Keep your PERSPECTIVE
Trust God and you will succeed.
God is with me.

2. Do your BEST
If you really want something, the universe will conspire to help you to get it.

During bad times find people who is in need or in troubles and make them happy.

Top 4 Values in Marketplace

1. Integrity
Truth in everything we do.
Come from the word Integer. Integral which means Wholeness.
Something that money can't buy.
What I am for others.
In work place, you are a kind of employee that can be keep secrets and will not keep failures and defects of your boss.

2. Reliability
Employee who see to it that can meet deadlines.
Be a team player.
Goal "To good to be true employee."

3. Joy
To have fun in your self.

Enjoy who you are.
Enjoy what you have.
Enjoy life.

4. Servanthood

Commitment for co-workers to reach their dream

Reason/s why we are working?

Before enumerating the Values a person have in Marketplace let us first know what is the reason why we are working.

When Ms. Geraldine ask this question, my answer is this:

I am working because I am born to work. We are living in this world to work. We are working because in order to live one person needs to work. Not only for the reason of earning money to live but also to help our family and other people. We are all working because everyone needs each other. Through working people are able to attain their happiness and the flow of life will continue.

My own perspective when it comes to why I am working is that I am preparing myself to have a good future with my own family someday. To have better life and achieve my goals in life. To help my family and other people. I want other people to achieve their goal and I am happy to see them successful in life. through working we can help them to reach their dream.

Maybe I am looking with work not only to earn money but rather it is a responsibility of every person as a living creature created by God.

Ms. Geraldine say:

We are working for Nation Transfiguration.

The people of the Philippines are the natural resources of this country. If people will think how this country will prosper and not for its own interest. If people learn how to care for each other and are willing to give or share his time for the others then we will have a beter future. It may takes time but if we all persevere and and be consistent I believe that there is a chance that we can reverse the situation of this country.

Wednesday, September 13, 2006

How to Win in Marketplace?

Everyone wants to be Successful in his career. Below are some tips that will lead you to success.

1. A Call to Excellence.
Excellence can make a Big difference.
Excellent people can easily influence other people.
Excellent people have a big chance of Changing others.

2. Ethics and Integrity.
Foundation of Work.
Ethics- what is your behaviour towards work. Try to be different. Maintain your ethical behaviour and do not let others influence you. Let then influence by you.
Stand what you think is right.
Remember that that your Boss wants you to do the right thing.
Integrity- defines what you are when no one is looking.

3. Extravagance love in Service.
If someone hit you with stone, hit them with bread. If someone slap you on your left face, give your right face as well.
Hirap nito. Ang hirap magpaka martir.

4. Signs and Wonders
You don't need to do miracle things. In everyday life we touch other lives by showing your care and you are open for help.

Life is short.
Make it the best you can be.

It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.

Clay in the Potters Hand

I am not going to teach how to make a pot. I want everyone to put ourselves as the clay while the Hands of the Lord are bringing as up and leading us to the direction He wants us to be.


1. Massaging.
Checking the conditions or the attitudes. God allowing us to make decisions. He letting us to do what we want and giving us what we want.

2. Wedging.
Slicing, cutting, slamming and tapping the clay.
Feelings are get hurt. Feel the pain which causes rebellion and pride arises.

3. Pours water
After the pain God will give something for refreshment.

4. The Potters rotates the wheels, puts the dough. Presses with His thumb and odds more pressure.
When you think everything is alright suddenly there comes a new problem, challenges which will check how much Faith you have.

5. The Potters puts oil and decorates.

6. Fire to furnish.

Superstar/Until You Come Back

(That's What I'm Gonna Do)

Written by Leon Russell, Bonnie Bramlett, Stevie Wonder, Morris Broadnax, Clarence Paul

I wanna tell you, baby
The changes I've been goin' through
Missin' you, missin' you, oh...oh...
Till you come back to me
I don't know what I'm gonna do
N-n-n-no, n-n-no

Don't you remember you told me you loved me, baby
You said you'd be comin' back this way again, baby
Baby, baby, baby, baby, baby, oh, baby
I love you
Yeah...I really do

Long ago
And oh, so far away
I fell in love with you
Before the second show

And your guitar
And you sound so sweet and clear
But you're not really here
It's just the radio

Don't you remember you told me you loved me, baby
You said you'd be comin' back this way again, baby
Baby, baby, baby, baby, oh, baby, yeah
I love you
I really do

(To belong) Yeah...hey...eah...yeah...hey...hey
(To belong) Whoa...ho...oh...whoa...ho...ho...
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
Yeah, yeah

You looked for me to be yours
You want my love, but you're on the road
Don't you remember me anymore

Is such a sad affair
A sad affair
And I can hardly wait
To be with you again

And what to say, to say
To make you come again
Oh, honey
Come on back to me again, yeah, hey
I wanna be, I wanna be anywhere you are

Don't you remember you told me you loved me, baby
You said you'd be comin' back this way again, baby
Baby, baby, baby, woo, baby, oh, baby
Yes, I love you
I really do

Yeah, hey...
Yeah, yeah...eah...yeah...ooh...
Play it easy, play it easy
Keep it right there, keep it right there, keep it right there
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
When are you gonna say
It's alright, it's alright
Ooh, baby, it's alright, it's alright
Alright now
Keep it right there, keep it right there
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
It's alright, it's alright
Ooh, baby, it's alright, it's alright
Say it's alright, it's alright
Say, ooh, baby, it's alright, it's alright
Alright now
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
Say it's alright, it's alright
Ooh, baby, it's alright, it's alright
Alright now
Alright now
I used to be sad
But now it's alright, it's alright
Ooh, baby, it's alright, it's alright
Alright now
I wonder, I wonder
Where are you again tonight
Are you holdin' someone else real tight
I wonder, I wonder, I wonder

Go The Distance

I have often dreamed, of a far off place
Where a heros welcome, would be waiting for me
Where the crowds will cheer, when they see my face
And a voice keeps saying, this is where Im meant to be

Ill be there someday, I can go the distance
I will find my way, if I can be strong
I know evry mile, will be worth my while
When I go the distance, Ill be right where I belong

Down an unknown road, to embrace my fate
Though that road may wander, it will lead me to you
And a thousand years, would be worth the wait
It might take a lifetime, but somehow Ill see it through

And I wont look back, I can go the distance
And Ill stay on track, no, I wont accept defeat
Its an uphill slope, but I wont lose hope
Till I go the distance, and my journey is complete

But to look beyond the glory is the hardest part
For a heros strength is measured by his heart
Like a shooting star, I will go the distance
I will search the world, I will face its harms
I dont care how far, I can go the distance
Till I find my heros welcome, waiting in your arms

I will search the world, I will face its harms
Till I find my heros welcome, waiting in your arms

What is the Secret of Buying?

The Secret Name of Effective buyer is YOU.

Everyone is standing in the field with treasures on it. Everyone has treasure inside.

Process for effective buying.

1. S- Study the Law.

2. P- Practice it.

3. T- Teach it.

The Essence of Giving Up

In order to go up one should learn how to Give Up.

1. Stop working on your weakness beacuse you are weak on your weakness.

2. Build on the Strength that God has given you.

3. Go to the place you can find your treasure.

4. Things don't happen. They are made to happen.

Treasure Hunting

Before when I heard treasure I am thinking for forture. Money, Gold, pearls, Diamonds or something that will makes me wealthy.

I remembered movies or stories about treasure hunting. They often times failed to get the treasure but they learned something that wealth can compare. These are treasure in Life. The experience they learned while seeking the treasure will be the treasure they find.

Treasure can't be found on surface. It is beyond the obvious.

1. What is the Secret of treasure hunting?
We are prisoners of familiarity. We overlook things we often see and do.

2. What is the hidden treasure?
Something that comes from within the person and not underneath the surface of the earth.

Rediscover your Potential by seeking:

1. Not the Field, but the Treasure

2. Not the Challenge, but Change

3. Not Money but the Ability that money can Give.

4. Not High but Able.

5. Not Decisions but Disciples.

6. Not Culture but Small community.

7. Not the Means but the End.

8. Not the Impact Learning but Intentional learning.

9. Not Hobby but Habits.

The 10 Can Mandments

For Call center agents like me. To have a high CSAT (feedback survey from Customers) here's something that will help us handling difficult clients.

We can apply these things not only with our work but in our daily lives. So please take time to reflect, meditate each items below.

It works for me alot.

To Win over those stumbling blocks.

1. It will never fly.
It's worth giving a try.

2. It won't work.
We'll make it work.

3. It's never been done
We have the opportunity to do it first.

4. What if we fail?
What if we fail to try?

5. We don't have any money.
Money flows to great ideas.
There's a call to be industrous.

6. We don't have the time.
We can re-evaluate our priorities.
Make or spend your time wisely. Spend your time so that everybody will be benifited. Most of the time we our spending our time to accumulate money and we often forget our family. Take time to bond to your love ones since we are working for them.

7. We do not have the expertise.
All leaders are learners.

8.It's never been tried by.
There's always a room for improvements.

9. You start from the given.
All problem starts with a given.

10. It's not working out.
Let's try it one more time from different angle.

"People don't care how much you know untill they know how much you care."

Facing the Real You

1. Discouragement. Be strong. Manage your emotion, your fear.

It is good that you are discouraged because there is a call for a courageous act.

2. Mistakes. Turning adversity into oppportunity.

"When one door of happines closes, another door opens but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the other window that has been opened to us."

Fail to forward. It is understood that we are not perfect, but we need to aim for excellence.

3. Rejection. It is all in your mind. Nobody can reject you.

Talk to the King of the Kings so that nobody can reject you nor you feel intimidated.

4. Pain. A signal to prevent you in a badly hurt.